Some Quick Updates...

Some quick updates from my side.

1)3.5mths since the birth of EQ. I have not update her birth or post anything thereafter coz, as usual, I am trying hard to cope. I guess I just suck in time management and caring for newborns.

2) QY is very jealous at this stage. He's always thinking EQ is keeping us away from him. He's always looking for a chance to press her body parts hard.

Most babycare of EQ is left to the maid and hb. I cannot carry EQ at all. If I do, QY would stop whatever he's doing then and try to pulls away her limbs, in an attempt to get her away from me.

I am going slow with QY. Some advised me that I ought to carry EQ more so that QY understands that she is part of the family. But knowing QY, I know he requires more time to adapt slowly. He's improving slowly so long as I am not carrying EQ.

EQ is a very special child to me. No words can describe it. I know she understands why I can't carry her or spend more time with her. And I know she will be blessed and loved by all. It's something strange but I don't know how to explain it.

EQ will grow up very differently from QY. She will be more independent as well.

There are drastic changes at work. I can't blog or surf the net as much. I'm not complaining much on these. I just hopeeeeeeeee that I do not have to travel frequently.

I'm going to Shanghai next weekend. I am worried about QY. I don't know how he is going to cope without me around. He's superly sticky now. I will be testing EQ with frozen EBM this weekend. If she is not taking it well, I will just have to try FM on her.

EQ hates my milk just like QY. She's basically a sleep and drink bb who rarely fusses. The only time she makes noise was when we try to give her milk. And coz of her "hatred" for milk, she manages to sleep through, a few days before reaching 3mths.